Hello there,
Today I want to reach out to young women my age and and around it; women that share the same grounds as me; women that love themselves dearly; women that can relate. This is to all my single ladies. If it is to you, then you will understand and read easy; if not then I do apologize. Comment and I will clarify.
Now I want to talk about having a companion, a boyfriend, a special someone. If you are single, you may be feeling a little insecure of the reasons why; well sisters; please do not feel that way.
Just because the right guy hasn't approached you yet; it does not mean that you are not an intelligent, beautiful, and respectful young lady. We as women who share many similarities in life must realize that our everyday experiences give us the strength that makes us illuminate any room we walk into. For this could very well be the reason why that guy does not know how to walk up to you.
To me, that makes it all the more better because then when they build up all their confidence, they are all the more respectful. Now they know that they are dealing with some real female, not just any female who would give a brother play any day.
They have to know that you are regal lady that has standards that your man needs to reach for and achieve.
I believe that you have to have the ability to be down to earth, polite and of good mannerisms. The knowledge of when it is right to make a scene and a mouth when it is time to prove your point discretely. You will let them know that you can argue and state your case logically and reasonably. Most of all, you will not sit around and disappear into the white wall.
She the women knows when and how to serve and please her man in all aspects, but is not going to and will not be walked on.
So be patient and wait for life to turn to you.
We live to live
We live to create
We live to love
4 comments:
yes women need to realize that their standards set the beat for any music a guy will step up and rap to. Standards are key; but not a long list. There are a lot of women who have these long list and if a guy doesn't meet them, farewell. I think if one must have a list then no more than three, it'll be easy to remember.
Nowadays, men and woman are not completed unless they have their significant other. People don't understand that you have to be completed with God and yourself first. Its still ok to feel cuz your human. We just need to gradually increase our self-worth.
I totally agree with you. Most women find negativity out of everything. It is also very important for a women to clarify there standards not only through spoken word, but though action as well.
From a brother's perspective, a confident woman definitely helps us to rise to the situation of forming a relationship. Although it may not be admitted some of the most appreciated women are those who have the most respect for themselves,letting the light that God gave them shine from within.
Have a blessed day
Will L.
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